Happiness

Life with children is not always what we imagined, pre-children, what it was cracked up to be. I know I had a very different idea(s) about what I would do when I had kids. I’ve since learned to (mostly) shut my mouth about what I think I know. But it doesn’t mean that parenting is any easier.I started this “Happiness is…” project to remind me of the good that happens in my weeks with the kids. It’s not that it’s necessarily hard to find the good, but I often forget. To use a well-used analogy, I can’t see the forest for the trees and the good can get lost in the bad.While the bad stuff keeps happening (as it always will – one more peanut buttered head, or milk spilled on the floor, or pumpkin plants cut up to pieces), I can look joyfully at my pictures to remind me that our happiness keeps happening too. Sometimes it’s about the kids, and sometimes it’s about a moment of joy in the cleanliness of a counter. Or an early bedtime and some free time. Whatever it is, it’s a little piece of happiness I can reflect back on.Welcome to the Happiness project.

  • Happiness is… (vol 7)

    The older sister helping to play with the younger one. Most of the afternoon was spent with Cassia trying hard to play with Felicity, who was on-and-off wanting someone to play with. Except…

  • Happiness is… (vol 6)

    …the deck stained and fully cured; getting back onto that deck with drying clothes naturally in the beautiful sun & kids frolicking happily around the deck. So thankful to have the deck back…

  • Happiness is… (vol 5)

    Finally getting through all the piled up dishes and getting to see the counter again. It’ll only last until after supper, but until then, it’s a joy to behold.

  • Happiness is… (vol 4)

    My husband hard at work. Also me, to be honest. We started the process of staining the deck yesterday (washing the thing clean…took a lot longer than hoped) and today we got the…

  • Happiness… (vol 3)

    Today happiness is having two children around in the evening (thanks to my awesome husband taking the middle little lady to work) and one playing outside, giving me the opportunity to watch another…